More Drama!

Carol has been really nasty. First off please do not repeat this other than to Mom who knows and Peter and Alan. Carol I very nicely asked her to delete Alison a while back. She gave me a really had time about it told me she supports me but not like that…whatever. I didn’t understand since everyone has been there to support them in their time of need but she couldn’t do that for me. Then after Kaylee’s party, I nicely asked her if she could delete the video’s she posted as she is friends with Alison still, and I did not want Alison to see stuff that goes on in my family. Alison likes to keep emailing me and pointing stuff out….other story. Anyways, It is a major trigger for me and I asked Carol 3 times nicely! Then she Blocked me on FB. I ended up writing her an email telling her I would report her to FB if the pictures weren’t taken down. It was because I was very upset at this point because I did ask her nicely. Alan then got involved because he saw how much it was hurting me so Alan tried calling Carol…she never picked up so he ended up texting her trying to explain nicely again for me…he figured maybe coming from him she could understand. Anyways, Carol finally writes Alan back telling Alan that she will never take any more family photos and then goes on to tell him that she feels sorry for him and my kids because of what he has to deal with with me!!!! Alan just let it go and replied lol! Then a few days later, I get another freaking email from Alison and she says to me I don’t understand why you don’t want me to see your pictures on FB. Now mind you the only one who knew about that besides, Mom, Alan and Peter at the time was Carol. Carol went and told Alison that I didn’t want her to see my pictures! Not to mention, she forwarded my messages on to Colleen to read. Really! Really?? Was that necessary. Why is she creating more drama than needed? Can you please tell me what on earth I did that was so wrong, that I deserved to be treated like that. I do admit after that happened I told Carol off and so did Alan via text. She only responded by telling me to never email or text her again. She never even apologized for doing what she did. Mom was even suprised by Carol doing this. 

Now getting to Colleen, we went out to that one on one lunch back in March. We had a great time. I even did my best to explain where I was coming from with the depression and explained about the Alison situation and that it just really meant a lot to me if she could delete Alison as I didn’t want Alison knowing anymore about my family business and I really needed that support from my family. Well she said to my face she understood…. then she talks to Carol a day or so later and emails me saying that I am childish and she really doesn’t understand why she deleted Alison but she did it anyways. Now I have come to find out that Colleen has added Alison back on to her friends list! Now you tell me because Alan and Mom and Peter don’t get why she would do that. Alan was pissed off and told me that Colleen was being a spiteful, two-faced bitch! Again how do I deserve this? What could I have ever done to anyone to deserve being treated like crap! This is the crap that triggers me off and sends me into further depression. I wish I could let it all go. How do I fix it when my own family thinks I am nuts. I have a medical condition and no one can understand that. I admit I am super sensitive and take things very personally. I am trying hard to work on that in therapy but is it too much to ask people to be mindful and supportive especially of their own family and not Alison!

Lost Trust

What can I say about certain family. They are awful! Not to mention. Totally unsupportive!!  I told my cousin I needed her support being she is my family, what did she do.  She went and told the person I am at odds with something personal. How can she be so spiteful and hurtful?

I didn’t want a certain person to see family pictures of mine and asked her to remove them since she has this person on her Facebook…not even really friends with her just an aquaintance of hers through me. What does my cousin do…she goes and tells the person who I am not talking to that I don’t want her to see the pictures. Then the person I am not talking too emails me to tell me that! Explain to me how people act like this! Your own family not supporting you but just some aquaintance they will probably never see again. I am beside my self. This person knows very well the depression and sadness I have and did this anyways!

Drama Girl Starts Again!

Sometimes the drama from people never ends.

Dawn,

If it makes you feel better than do what you need to do. I will not be bullied or told what to do. I will continue to speak to my friends that had nothing to do with our disagreement. This is not game of thrones where families go against each other because of a disagreement. This is between you and I and I wanted to keep it that way. You decided to involve everyone by actually asking them to delete me as a friend. Who does that? I know I would never do that to you nor have I!  

Also for someone who is at peace why do you constantly wish ill will towards me?  Thank God, things have actually been awesome for me and I am able to move on with a strong mind and soul. This has been one of my better summers in a very long time. I have been promoted, I have been hanging out with friends and been invited out to places I haven't been to. Im going to florida with a group of friends at the end of the month. Brian has been wonderful and has been great during this transition. I have been able to spend most of the summer with him thanks to my job. I have great support from my friends and family when I needed them most but yet I try not to dwell on my self but yet just have fun.

Keith and I are not compatible and I have found peace.  We are amicable and we do work together for the sake of Brian but yet we understand that we need to separate.  I have found that their is life out there that is to be lived and I am so grateful and Happy so Your comment to me when you said, I deserve what I get, Well, Thanks!!! So far It has been great!!!  I won a chance to meet Duran Duran, I won a vacation to hershey park, I got promoted, I have most of the summer off and I am again losing the weight I gained during the stressful time of my life ( noted by you that I gained all of it back, nice!!)

I don't post anything negative on my FB, it isn't healthy to do so. I have always tried to be positive and it is a good feeling. 

Before judging my life, why don't you take a look at yours?  Who do you still talk to? Who are you angry with now? Who have you deleted off the payroll? why are you so concerned about me seeing pictures of your family? BTW, it was all over FB not by your family but by others and I was happy to see that everyone had such a great time. It was very enjoyable to see.

Im sort of wondering who you think Im speaking to? Because I haven't really spoke to anyone in your family lately. Maybe to Lisa and Darren here and there on FB but other than that.. Im curious to know..

Anyway, please again, stop emailing me and stop threatening me. Also, stop emailing my work email for your sake, they are considering some of it harassment and will take further action.

Dawn, go live your life be happy!!! That is all i wish for! Stop worrying about what I do or what I may see. It isn't worth the stress!